People use astrology for a variety of reasons, ranging from money and career to life purposes. However, one of the more common applications of astrology, according to astrologers, deals with matters of the heart.
If you’ve been on a million dates and nothing has stuck, it’s natural to wonder if you’re unwittingly sabotaging yourself. Even the best of us can fall victim to it because it’s so simple to fall into unhealthy habits without even realizing it.
Although there is no shortage of dating advice accessible, it is usually incoherent and perplexing; therefore, it would be more advantageous to think about dating advice based on your zodiac sign.
Aries (March 21 — April 19)
Because Mars, the planet of passion and aggression, rules Aries, they are typically fiery and intense which leads to their intense dating style and things sometimes escalate too quickly. Aries tend to rush into relationships often leads to over-commitment. It would be suggested to take more measures and take things slowly.
Aries, take your time and enjoy the moment. Before moving on, take your time getting to know your date.
Taurus (April 20 — May 20)
Because of their stability and dependability, Tauruses make excellent partners, yet this quality can also make them prone to ruts and stubbornness when it comes to stepping outside their comfort zone.
A date is an occasion to get experimental and loosen yourself a bit. Be receptive to new experiences that push you outside of your comfort zone, Taurus.
Gemini (May 21 — June 20)
Geminis’ can be highly smart and charming dates because Mercury, the planet controlling Gemini, is the planet of communication. A Gemini’s focus on you is intense and seductive, but it’s also transitory because they get bored with new things easily.
Focus on connecting with one person at a time, and control yourself from constantly seeking out something new and shiny.
Cancer (June 21 — July 22)
One of the reasons cancers are so endearing is that they are heart-centered. This water sign loves someone with all of their heart when they sincerely care about them. However, having an open heart often means having a lot of sensitivity, feeling, and frequently, a history of heartbreak. All of that is OK, but it could be a lot to discuss on a first date.
The wise thing for Cancers’ would be to not overshare too much too early.
Leo (July 23 — Aug. 22)
Leo enjoys being the center of attention and being the show-stopper. They are so endearingly engaging that it is simple to captivate a crowd. The only issue is that Leo occasionally overlooks that dates are meant to be shared experiences between two people rather than a one-man show.
It would be suggested to Leo to ask questions and be a good listener.
Virgo (Aug. 23 — Sept. 22)
Virgo can’t help but be a little headstrong. They frequently overthink things and have extremely high expectations of themselves and others. As a result, the first date with a Virgo might occasionally feel similar to a job interview in which everything you say is carefully considered and weighed.
Although it comes from a good place—Virgo doesn’t want to waste anyone’s time—it can also ruin the romance. Be present and don’t overthink what your date says, Virgo.
Libra (Sept. 23 — Oct. 22)
Venus, the planet linked to beauty and love, is ruled by Libra, thus they have a rather passionate romantic streak. They also have a strong desire to always be fair.
As a result, Libra often gives people a second or third chance even after they’ve shown they don’t deserve it. When someone mistreats you, Libra, cut them loose once and for all.
Scorpio (Oct. 23 — Nov. 21)
Scorpios are seen as a mysterious sign. Because it makes them feel in control, this water sign prefers to keep things very close to their chest.
They have a lot to guard since they have big, weak hearts. But even while this might initially be effective, it might come off as playing pointless games. Don’t be reluctant to be a little more vulnerable, Scorpio.
Sagittarius (Nov. 22 — Dec. 21)
A Sagittarius is usually a lot of fun to date. They have a positive attitude toward life and are outgoing, daring, and charming. But it can be challenging to take them seriously because they frequently come and go from your life, leaving you wondering what happened to them.
Sag is a very independent sign, but they eventually want to settle down, which will require some work.
Sag should get to know the person they are dating by spending more time with them. Don’t take a connection for granted when you make one.
Capricorn (Dec. 22 — Jan. 19)
Capricorn is a very driven sign. They decide on a course of action, set goals, and then carry it through. Unfortunately, love doesn’t operate in that manner, which can make dating discouraging and seem pointless to Cap.
They simply require a different strategy that embraces dating in all its thrill and unpredictability. Cap, relax a bit. Allow yourself to unwind and enjoy yourself.
Aquarius (Jan. 20 — Feb. 18)
Because they are honestly quite content with their own company and have plenty of friends, Aquarius is rarely in a rush to enter a relationship. Additionally, relationships include a lot of mushy feelings, which are not Aquarius’ strong suits.
But deep down, Aquarius also fears that they will never meet someone who genuinely understands them, even if they are aware that people are waiting in line for the opportunity.
Aquarius, be who you are. Seriously though, be the amazing, unique, and eccentric you. If someone is the right one for you, they will accept you for who you are.
Pisces (Feb. 19 — March 20)
Since Pisces is a romantic at heart, they can’t help but get caught up in the fantasy of what may have been when they first started dating. The issue is that Pisces occasionally struggles to recognize exactly what it is and ends up settling for less than they genuinely desire and are entitled to.
It’s okay to be choosy, Pisces. Not every date is supposed to end happily ever after.
All the zodiac signs have their own special qualities that make them ideal companions and dates, but they also all have areas where they fall short.
The first step to avoiding the linked behaviors that are ruining your romantic life is to understand these areas. Don’t lose heart in the meanwhile. You can do this.